Whitney, Michael and Amy...Why?
Damn it! I know this is going to sound selfish, but I've been robbed of another great singer who was giving my life so much richness and joy. First it was Michael and Amy, and now, Whitney. I know they had their reasons for basically committing suicide, but couldn't they have waited at least until I was given a few more of their amazing musical gifts? Sure, I'm aware of the screwed up childhood, the drugs and the alcohol. I, like so many musicians and artists, have been through much of that. I know I'm going to piss some of you off by saying this, but that's how I feel. I've been robbed. Around a year ago my student and great friend was also defeated by alcohol. He spent most of his adult life being defeated by a terrible addiction. This guy was the greatest singer I ever taught..his amazing voice and talent silenced forever. He just couldn't stop drinking. Again, the world was denied the wonderful music he could have given us.
I'm not judging, I'm just venting.
My question is...why? Why do so many artists take their own lives, not with a gun, but with alcohol and drugs? This problem isn't unique to our times. History tells us that many great classical composers and artists have died of these causes at too young an age, leaving so many potential works unrealized; never to be mine. If you want to fill a few hours, Google "musicians dead because of alcohol and drugs" That'll wake you up real fast, especially if you still haven't accepted that you might have a problem. Do you? Facts and history tell us that we musicians and performers are very susceptible to such addictions, and have to stay alert to the warning signs.
I just scanned the web for names of singers, actors and performers who died from alcohol and drugs. Here are just a few:
John Bonham, Kurt Cobain, Dee Dee Ramone, John Entwistle, Chris Farley, Judy Garland, Bobby Hatfield, Jimi Hendrix, Billie Holiday, Billie Holiday, Brian Jones, Janis Joplin, Phil Lynott, Keith Moon, Jim Morrison, Marilyn Monroe, Brent Mydland, Jani Lane, Gram Parsons, Chris Penn, River Phoenix, Elvis Presley, Sid Vicious, Brad Renfro, Bon Scott, Bobby Sheehan, Hillel Slovak, Ike Turner, Amy Winehouse, Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston....and we all know that there are hundreds and hundreds more.
If you can't go a week without alcohol or drugs you have a problem. Test yourself by taking a week off occasionally. If you can't do it, you have a problem which will bite you in the ass eventually.
When I was "on the road" I drank a lot every night. I told myself that I was a much better singer and player when I was drinking. But when I listened to recordings of my gigs I was appalled by the poor pitch, bad phrasing and lack of musicianship. Did I learn from that? No. I just kept on drinking. I admit, there are some creative people who are better when they do weed or alcohol, but the list is short...and you probably aren't one of those people (I'm not). Are you actually better when you drink, or are you continuing to fool yourself?
Many working musicians, actors and entertainers simply should not drink or do heavy drugs. Are they going to stop? Probably not. It's a way of life for many of us, and we don't want to change. So how do you know if you really have a problem? Take the "week off" test I mentioned earlier. Do it often. If you can't do without you shouldn't do with.
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